Mr. Deyab. It may be possible (and a lot easier) to find your dream girl who will satisfy your requirements back in your area because then, both of you will have the same culture and are exposed to the same environment.
It will be close to impossible to ask someone, whether it is a guy or girl, to stop talking to someone, let alone the whole gender! You are talking about three billion people, my friend!
A person from another country not only will have a different outlook than yours, he or she will also have differences in society values, traditions and customs, just to name a few. It is utterly unreasonlble to take away a person's freedom (in this case, her freedom to speak to another man) simply because of our own selfishness and jealousy.
To make it more bluntly, simply put yourself in the reversed position. If a woman promises you that she will buy you all the things you've said in your post, gets you a man servant, take you to see Europe every year but keeps you locked up in a fancy house. Will you be as happy as a lark?
I don't know everything about love, my friend. But I do know that when you really love someone, you are willing to set her/him free. After all, freedom is the most precious thing in our lives and we should treasure it more than any material thing in this world.