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post #1 of 17 (permalink) Old October 28th, 2015, 03:14 Thread Starter
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Do you think Fagyi AKA Bentex is manipulative?

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I've been called manipulative several times by the same person in my life recently. It's starting to hurt my feelings.

You don't have to give examples if you don't want...but please take part in the poll.
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post #2 of 17 (permalink) Old October 28th, 2015, 04:17
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More of an attention whore.
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He's trying but is obviously not really good at it. I'm sure he just seeks to be loves just like everyone else. Some scars heal slowly, some don't heal at all. At least we cannot help them, only God can.

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post #5 of 17 (permalink) Old October 28th, 2015, 14:07 Thread Starter
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No doubt attention whore, that is obvious. But not looking for love, I have that from the most beautiful people in the world.

I'm kind of worries they may even take notice of these allegations.

Thanks to the people who voted...it has made me feel much better.
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Not yet..anyways.

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My lack of response to the poll is my response to the poll.
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post #8 of 17 (permalink) Old October 29th, 2015, 14:54 Thread Starter
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Well I'm glad. A certain someone can spend his leisure time reading this.


As he believes everything else he reads here.
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Benny you have become a living example of the proverb:

"You either die a hero, or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain."

at least in XT life

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post #10 of 17 (permalink) Old October 29th, 2015, 19:56
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Fagyi isn't manipulative! Who is even suggesting that he is? I've known Fagyi for almost 10 years, he's the heart and soul of this forum who is brimming with information, his insights, commentary, and straightforward knowledge makes him 'grand wizard' of Magyar foci.
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post #11 of 17 (permalink) Old October 29th, 2015, 20:32 Thread Starter
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Fagyi isn't manipulative! Who is even suggesting that he is?
Somebody who should know better. Who's even hinting I'll use violence against him.

I'll give I'm a pass for that. He has short man syndrome. When he's around a big guy like me and it gets heated I don't blame him for getting worried.

Still, when the little lady get angry with me she gets right in my face and just Fergie hair dryers me. She's even shorter than this guy and has arms like a bird.

I shouldn't let it get to me but I respect this guy. Although I'm losing it.
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Who ever is even suggesting that is full of bunk Fagyi. Somebody on this forum or elsewhere? Suggest to the guy that he take a 'chill pill', and get this: unless you're running the Dark Net's 'Silk Road' it's impossible to be manipulative on the Net, people are just stating their opinions. Fagyi, somebody is respecting you enough that they're jealous of Fagyi.

I remember the glory days Fagyi, about 9 or 8 years ago, you were 'the man' on this forum, good times, good times.
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I doubt that someone is from forum.
Must be some one in real life.

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post #14 of 17 (permalink) Old October 29th, 2015, 21:04 Thread Starter
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I remember the glory days Fagyi, about 9 or 8 years ago, you were 'the man' on this forum, good times, good times.
And you always valued what I did for you and vice versa. That's why we're still good mates now.

But it's ok that I'm not 'the man' on XT in 2015. I wouldn't want to be...I had my time and I moved on. Fell in love, has some health issues etc. It's not high up in my priority list.

But old friends who have kept the connection are and always will be

That's why I'm a little pissed right now. FYI he's in my personal life and on this forum. But nobody who posted here would know him.

Don't need to say anything anymore...I got my answer. I deal with this situation my way and give the appropriate response in time.
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Fagyi, many ppl have got your back. I suspect somebody is jealous of ya Fagyi, take it as a sort of a compliment, build a big house and don't worry about it.

I have a hunch who it may be...I agree, this person has sometimes a negative attitude on the forums.

Let the good times roll, and all negativity should roll of ya like water off a goose.

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post #16 of 17 (permalink) Old October 30th, 2015, 00:41 Thread Starter
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Thanks Major, we have been good pals the last 10 years and I hope we are close ten years later and beyond.

As for this hapsi I've decided my course of action. First I will offer the olive branch...but if he's not receptive there could be a shit storm heading his way (not a violent or otherwise illegal approach). Érted?

Like I said I do like this guy (that's what upset me) so I hope to reach a compromise during a sit-down. The last sit-down was him bringing up stuff to back up his claims I'm manipulative. However, when I give an explanation that proves he's wrong he just keeps quiet. He can shoot his mouth off about things that back his argument but once I've given proof he's wrong there is no apology.

He's also been a bit of a cry baby telling people we both know things. Then bringing up a third party's say/advise which is a big lófasz in his segg. How can the other's take on this situation be valid when they didn't hear my side. These mofos may have to be delt with also.
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post #17 of 17 (permalink) Old October 31st, 2015, 19:06
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If my eyes serve me right, Fagyi I think I saw you on youtube the other day. The chap was celebrating Husvet with his extended family in the countryside, you know a locsolas. The chap looked exactly like you, he was downing schnapz and palinka and looked like a happy camper.
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