I know it's difficult for you on XT recently. Mainly because we were such good friends and we also worked well together. A big part of XT for you was your friendship with me.
I do not regret the stand I took, I regret the way it ended up. I asked for you help in stopping the baiting of me by people who don't like me because how I had to act as a moderator. I still don't believe you a did what was necessary. However, I do believe that you are the type of person who wants to be everyone's friend and doesn't like to make unpopular decisions. Also you took the FM role mainly because your strengths were organizing the forum and keeping it neat and tidy. Not to be a disciplinarian, at the time you thought I would handle that.
I also apologize for how I acted during this time. It was far worse than whatever was done to me. Yet even after several warnings you never punished me. I still say, the things I do were noting more than what other people have done in the past and nothing was said by anyone because it wasn't Bentex who said it. I was trying to make a point in a foolish way.
So where do we go from here? I hope that we can rebuild a friendship. I'm old enough and experienced enough to know it won't happen overnight. But it time things can become good again. You are one of the best members this site ever had and there was a reason I trusted the FM position with you.
One last thing, I say thinks like "Xactly" and "busy with UNI work" etc because I like these things. Not making fun of anyone or anything. I used many words and phrases down the years, way before you arrived. "he's my hero"..."whatever flicks your switch" etc. It's part of my personality and it doesn't break any rules. So...if you see me writing such things in future and think I'm trying to annoy people, I'm not.
Also my criticism of Dzsudzsák and Várszegi is 100% my opinion. I stand by it. It's what I think, and I'm not trolling. Juji sold out...decided money over ambition. Várszegi bleed MTK dry and strengthened their direct opponents. I have every reason to make these observations IMO.