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...when you're not sure whether you fancy someone or not? There's this girl I think I like (I don't know though) and I'm not sure whether I fancy her or not. I guess what this does mean though, looking on the bright side is that there is potential there for a future relationship. If I'm unsure whether I fancy someone or not then that must mean something, because that's obviously different to when you know that you don't have feelings for someone. Does anyone ever feel this?

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Just kiss her, then you'll know...

If not then you lost nothing, you still kissed a
good looking girl (I am assuming here )
As great an introduction as that would be, I somehow doubt that would go down too well.
I was too passive today, my foolish self walked straight past her without even saying anything :rollani: (bizarrely that sometimes means something, that kind of action). Now I have to wait until Wednesday to see her again.
One bonus thing that happened once was when I was looking at her (and yes, she is nice looking :smileani she smiled at me. That was nice, and maybe an indicator that she is aware of what I'm doing and maybe she likes me... I won't find out until Wednesday, and I promise I will be braver then. I've missed too many opportunities with people in the past due to my confidence not being too sharp. I have to go for it, and I will on Wednesday, I can guarantee.
If I find her smile at least a little stimulating then there should be something there.
The most basic and important rule must apply - be myself.
Maybe I do fancy her, but like I said, Wednesday will be the day.
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1) Walk up to her
2) Look into her eyes
3) Say, "You and me, baby, ain't nothin' but mammal, so let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel."

If she runs away, you don't want her. If she laughs, you might want her. If she agrees with your proposal, you do want her.

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I was trying to come up with cheesy pickup lines and had to think of that lyric, which is from a Bloodhound Gang song that was popular a few years ago.

On a serious note, the best thing you can do, Tiger, is to be confident and to be yourself. That's what's going to impress her the most.

Remember, the worst thing that can happen is that she's not interested. Life will go on anyway, so don't let fear of rejection stop you.
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I was trying to come up with cheesy pickup lines and had to think of that lyric, which is from a Bloodhound Gang song that was popular a few years ago.
"I hope you die"?

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As great an introduction as that would be, I somehow doubt that would go down too well.
I was too passive today, my foolish self walked straight past her without even saying anything :rollani: (bizarrely that sometimes means something, that kind of action). Now I have to wait until Wednesday to see her again.
One bonus thing that happened once was when I was looking at her (and yes, she is nice looking :smileani she smiled at me. That was nice, and maybe an indicator that she is aware of what I'm doing and maybe she likes me... I won't find out until Wednesday, and I promise I will be braver then. I've missed too many opportunities with people in the past due to my confidence not being too sharp. I have to go for it, and I will on Wednesday, I can guarantee.
If I find her smile at least a little stimulating then there should be something there.
The most basic and important rule must apply - be myself.
Maybe I do fancy her, but like I said, Wednesday will be the day.
Maybe you fancy her? Hey man, you are clearly in love.
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Maybe you fancy her? Hey man, you are clearly in love.
I really hope so. It would make me very happy.

About the Bloodhound Gang song - it would be interesting... I will have that down as plan B. :dielaugh:
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Right now, I don't feel any lust. Sorry to bother you lot like this, but is this natural, to think you have feelings for someone one minute then the next be unemotional? Am I being irrational here? For once I want to choose my personal life before my career, it gets really dull when all you focus on is work. I don't want to sound like some bewildered, insecure fool (but that seems to be where I am ) but is this all normal? I can't tell.
(Damn you unpredictable hormones. :frustrat
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Perhaps I just need more stimulation - see more bands perform, flirt with this girl (and be flirted back, hopefully). I need more fulfillment.
Most of all, I need to find all the work I lost at college in a folder lol. Maybe that's the niggling problem at the back of my head. I might be able to think clearer once that problem is sorted out...
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Could be that you are more interested in being with someone in general than you are in being with this girl specifically.
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Maybe you have bipolar disorder...

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Maybe you have bipolar disorder...
Is that like a very minor form of split personallity?

Btw, I was feeling blue today (I've actually written a song called 'Feeling Blue'. ), but when I saw the girl again, my blues just became diminished. I am making small progress, I learned what her name is today - Harley. Nice name. Anyway, yes I'm confused.

I think she may be going out with someone, but I will try to summon the courage to find out somehow.

I should at least talk to her.
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Is that like a very minor form of split personallity?

Btw, I was feeling blue today (I've actually written a song called 'Feeling Blue'. ), but when I saw the girl again, my blues just became diminished. I am making small progress, I learned what her name is today - Harley. Nice name. Anyway, yes I'm confused.

I think she may be going out with someone, but I will try to summon the courage to find out somehow.

I should at least talk to her.
it's good to have a goal in life. let us know how things are going

I strictly have nothing to say but I want that comes out.
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Is that like a very minor form of split personallity?

Btw, I was feeling blue today (I've actually written a song called 'Feeling Blue'. ), but when I saw the girl again, my blues just became diminished. I am making small progress, I learned what her name is today - Harley. Nice name. Anyway, yes I'm confused.

I think she may be going out with someone, but I will try to summon the courage to find out somehow.

I should at least talk to her.
Its like mood swings, manic behaviour, depression and you feel disconnected among other things. Well if she makes you happy let her know a bit, just say something like its "good to see you again" and try to spark up a little talk.

Yeah, talk to her a bit. If she has a boyfriend you can still be friendly, amiable and then if they don't work out, you'll be there for her. Good luck, not the end of the world to say hello.

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Like Lucky said, you've got time, so take it nice and easy. Also don't over-analyze or over-plan things, and instead let things develop as they should.
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I will keep you all up to date mali.

Lucky luciano, I'm 17. Thanks for the compliment, btw. Harley is on a different course than I am, which makes it hard to talk to her, it takes some courage to talk to someone you fancy when you have so few opportunities in a day to do it, but I'll give it a go. It's extra hard for me to make a move when she's talking to other people around her, it would make me embarassed :embarass: I will try though.

Yes, depression and feeling disconnected are common place, marc. Perhaps I do have a bit of what you said, but it could be other things.

Yep, I'm certainly one for over-analysing. The amount I unneccessarily analysis depends on my mood. If I'm feeling positive then I don't question my feelings so much, whereas if I'm feeling negative then I do, and it makes me feel even more negative. Right now I'm feeling ok, have been better, have been a lot worse. Yes, analysing is something that I need to control more.
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I have a long lunch break tommorow, so I should have some good opportunities.
I'm going to see a band performance tonight, so maybe that will lift my spirit.
I've noticed something. There must be feeling because if I didn't have Harley on my mind in my current state, I would probably be depressed, so my mood should be great when I'm positive.
This can only be good, and I mustn't analyze.
Talking to Harley and making a move should get other feelings flowing as well. :smileani:
All seems A-ok.
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