Well y'all this is from a thread I typed out in a forum elsewhere so if it's worded oddly well - that's why lol. It's about what I typed down about what the guy told me: -
*About how I always seem to make conversations be about me all the time... and people can't keep track with a conversation with me because it's something that has nothing to do with them when I talk about stuff I'm doing and that...
This guy has known me for over a year and tells me every conversation I have with him has been mainly about me.
He says this is why I ain't getting girls and that, and why people in social interactions avoid me - he says he thinks I'm cool, and that I look cool, but what I say is not social etiquette.
And that it's all about common ground and nothing different - and if you don't have anything to say about the common ground then you don't need to say anything.
I've missed this for 18 years of my life.
If this doesn't make entire sense or is obvious or whatever then my apologies for that.
I obviously shouldn't be so proud and that... it's all caused by intimidation of others... a kind of defence thinking that if I don't act this way then they'll pick on me.
And that I shouldn't keep saying this and that about aspergers and saying how it's the thing that makes me do this and that... he says people like me because of me.
And that sometimes I've been kinda acting like a charity case... which is all because of this thing I've been so unaware of for so long...*
Yes I've been so unaware of one of the most fundamental social basics for so long. But the past well - it's not so useful. The future is what I live for man.