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Old August 28th, 2011, 15:47   #81
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My best friend is a girl. She is extremely beautiful and I had a huge crush on her when I first met her but nothing really happened between us. Now we're really close and tell each other pretty much everything. It's also amazing because she gives great women tips, some of which I even used last night to great effect. Girl friends are great - it's the future.
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Old August 28th, 2011, 15:52   #82
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My best friend is a girl. She is extremely beautiful and I had a huge crush on her when I first met her but nothing really happened between us. Now we're really close and tell each other pretty much everything. It's also amazing because she gives great women tips, some of which I even used last night to great effect. Girl friends are great - it's the future.
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Old August 28th, 2011, 16:23   #83
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It's also amazing because she gives great women tips, some of which I even used last night to great effect.
Do I really need to ask? Let's hear all about it.
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Old August 28th, 2011, 18:34   #84
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Well I've been meeting this girl for a few dates, not kissed her yet, and last night was my first evening out with her. She just mentioned a few things which girls like that I hadn't considered before really, cool ways initiating the kiss, ways of being very touchy without being sleazy etc. Idk, good shit and now I am in the good books
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Old August 28th, 2011, 18:42   #85
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Well I've been meeting this girl for a few dates, not kissed her yet, and last night was my first evening out with her. She just mentioned a few things which girls like that I hadn't considered before really, cool ways initiating the kiss, ways of being very touchy without being sleazy etc. Idk, good shit and now I am in the good books
I think she was hinting at something.
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Old August 28th, 2011, 18:44   #86
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Well I've been meeting this girl for a few dates, not kissed her yet, and last night was my first evening out with her. She just mentioned a few things which girls like that I hadn't considered before really, cool ways initiating the kiss, ways of being very touchy without being sleazy etc. Idk, good shit and now I am in the good books
Tell me you kissed her...?!
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Old August 28th, 2011, 19:06   #87
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Yeah, most of my friends are female.
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Old August 28th, 2011, 19:23   #88
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Tell me you kissed her...?!
course

idk, im done necking people in clubs really. nothing ever comes from it.

i'm just going at a speed this girl feels comfortable with - no need to rush things
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Old August 28th, 2011, 19:24   #89
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LOL at LL's stud persona ITT
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Old August 28th, 2011, 19:39   #90
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You heartless.... nah, I hear you.

Whenever I let a female friend get too close, she inevitably ends up asking me to **** her and I'm serious. Sounds egotistic but I think its the fact they get to know the real me without the pressure of a 'date' or the effort in impressing each other. This wasn't a problem until a friend in my class in Uni ended up breaking her engagement with a guy on the hope we might get together.

That was a big wake up call and I started to keep a distance after that and makes sure lines don't get blurred, of course, as in every situation I had a role to play by being overly friendly and flirty. I did get seduced once with a bottle of red wine though. Ok, that sentence needs to be rephrased.

So to answer the question, both parties have to see each other as a-sexual beings for it to remain 100% platonic and make sure no alcohol is involved.


Major lol when I read that she broke off her engagement because of you. You homebreaker!

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Well I've been meeting this girl for a few dates, not kissed her yet, and last night was my first evening out with her. She just mentioned a few things which girls like that I hadn't considered before really, cool ways initiating the kiss, ways of being very touchy without being sleazy etc. Idk, good shit and now I am in the good books
Good job, dude!

Do you discreetly guide her through doors and across the street with your hand? Or whatever. With this expression:
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Old August 28th, 2011, 19:40   #91
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wow, that's a pretty terrible post you just made there LL
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Old August 28th, 2011, 19:43   #92
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Good job, dude!

Do you discreetly guide her through doors and across the street with your hand? Or whatever. With this expression:
well i do that anyway but yeah, that kind of thing. casual contact i guess - I think it works well with cute sweet girls like this.

Also being fun on the dance floor instead being overly forward is clearly the way to guy lads.
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Old August 28th, 2011, 19:56   #93
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well I guess it depends what you're looking for. I have no interest in seeing a girl who has the attention span of a goldfish who's not willing to invest into a relationship so my methods work fine for the type of girl Im looking for.

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Old August 28th, 2011, 20:01   #94
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yeah that was pretty funny at the time, i lost her going into a club because we were both too drunk

i was just standing at a club bar on my own wondering wtf just happened
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Old August 28th, 2011, 20:52   #95
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Anyway, I'm not entirely serious, if you're after a classy woman, I guess waiting 3 months for a first kiss works.
see this is just good ballbusting
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Old August 29th, 2011, 05:04   #96
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Srsly. Welcome to the male psyche. Being deeply, deeply in love with a superb woman way out of your league does not stop the eyes & brain wandering.
This is very true.

I sometimes check out other girls even when I'm with my gf.. who is out of my league.

and then I try to make excuses when she notices, like "she was right infront of me" and "the drawing on her top caught my attention"..
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lol hossam lol...i think your the coolest bro one of the few ppl i like in this world

now thats three rants lol

i love u bro. yr good people
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Old August 30th, 2011, 02:40   #97
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To answer the question of the thread, yes. Easily...I have loads of women friends that are close. But I'm not attracted to them, even though they're mainly pretty.

Strangely I went out for a drink with a young lady on Friday just wanting to be friends but we're obviously attracted to each other which is a real pain considering I have a long-term partner.

Now I have to decide if I will see the young lady again and try ignore my attraction, or avoid her. Avoid her is going to be the most likely.
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Old September 14th, 2011, 04:21   #98
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It's reality bro, I don't make the rules. If you move too slow, women lose interest. Courting is sweet and all but its rare to find women who appreciate that pace in our time.

I did ask, where are you? Different strokes for different places. If you were here with that attitude, you'd have nothing but your hand for company.
I know you were just busting my balls but just an update on this. She is pretty much my girlfriend now. Being an old fashioned gent works apparently
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Old September 14th, 2011, 17:57   #99
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I know you were just busting my balls but just an update on this. She is pretty much my girlfriend now. Being an old fashioned gent works apparently
This is great news. But what do you mean by "pretty much"?

Have you gotten a peck yet?

Someone high five me.
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Old September 14th, 2011, 18:01   #100
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By "pretty much" I guess I mean that we havn't had "the talk" yet
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